Gay_Relationships__the_Good,_Bad,_Pretty,_Ugly

You are now pronounced ‘Husband and Husband’ Gay relationships: The good, bad, pretty&ugly There are great controversies constantly going on in the contemporary world about gay relationships. People are always comparing ‘bromance’ to heterosexual relationships. In general, criticism dominates. However, why should people have the right to criticise about personal relationships' Why is it such a big deal to have a relationship with the same sex' Firstly, a relationship is basically an emotional and physical connection associated with two people. People who are in a gay relationship have as much right as any heterosexual couple. There are more heterosexual relationships than gay relationships worldwide, but that doesn’t change the fact that any person deserves to be treated as less as an equal because of their sexual orientation. People are always mistreated for their race, religion and rights. This isn’t just for gay rights; this is also for equality of people from women and men to gays and straights. Secondly, hostile emotional tactics, like belligerence and dominance are less common with gay couples. Gay couples that have dissenting interactions are able to do things by using humour and affection which enable them to step back, and continue talking about the problem instead of exploding like heterosexual relationships. Thirdly, contrary to what people believe, this homosexuality is not really a choice, preference or lifestyle. The feeling of being gay cannot just go away. There have always been gay people, and most likely always will. No matter how much they try to change, or how much they hate their selves, it’s hard to change because that is who they are. All they can do is embrace themselves with the person they have become. Gay relationships are only going to become more distinguished over time, so why not just learn to accept it instead of criticising and making a huge fuss about it. There are also cons about having or being in a gay relationship. Firstly, gay lifestyle is something that should not be encouraged in the society because a lot of research shows that it leads to a much lower life expectancy by twenty years, psychological disorders and other issues. Secondly, being in a gay relationship can affect people around you including yourself. Being in a gay relationship can involve all types of bullying from homosexuals as well as heterosexuals. The later results of this is suffering from major depression, three times as likely to suffer generalized anxiety disorder, four times as likely to experience conduct disorder, four times as likely to commit suicide, five times as likely to have nicotine dependence, six times as likely to have multiple disorders and many attempts of suicide. Thirdly, if you look at it in the future, the relationship overtime may have a strong bond. This relationship may turn into marriage. Gay marriage is a major factor which just begins from a gay relationship. Being in a same sex marriage, whether it’s a gay or lesbian relationship, have limitations compared to heterosexual relationships. Limitations such as not able to have children,