Communication_in_Families

Systems Analysis: Communication in Families The pieces that make up such a system of communication are derived from the purpose of the family to establish the further growth of the individual and the understanding of one another in relation of how to interact with each other. In open communication, the singular member’s self worth would be primarily more important than power and performance, while each of the families individual’s actions would represent ones beliefs meaning that all the rules made relate to each other, and when change occurs it is welcomed by the family with it being thought of as normal, or even desirable. For the system to fully work together, it is brought about by the individual. Confidence is needed to make the right actions, and choices in life. When an individual has the confidence to believe in him or herself, they respect the value of their self worth high enough to share emotions with their fellow family members, and even personal identity. Belief in oneself, may only flourish if the want of power and control over life is put aside instead for the knowledge and purity of true self-acceptance. The simple connection between loved ones is truly at it’s closest when each member feels their need to be accepted is satisfied by full partnership in the family system. When each individual of the family feels safe and secure enough to share themselves with each other, then open communication may begin. These actions then lead to each member knowing that mutual respect is the driving force behind the actions of everyone in the family unit. Self-worth and mutual respect only are attainable for kinfolk, if there are certain parameters, or rules that set which direction interaction between family members will lead. In a positive close relation experience, rules are made to reinforce the values of open communication such as members actively listening to each other, and to express oneself clearly about what is wanted. Guidance from parents shows the offspring that their actions represent ones own beliefs. When children are able to express themselves clearly, they are able to be present to the family system with open communication. Rules provide learning and leadership needed to set the example for children to understand how to treat others to how they form relationships later in life. For communication in the family unit to work, another part is an understanding of mutual trust that each individual will be open to identify different changes or stresses as they appear and to discuss resolutions. As well as the option of compromise when relating to the changing contents of new and different situations brought forth by interacting with the outside world. Each member of the family is important to keeping the communication system possible as well as changing it if needed to suit the benefits of different options if deterioration and problematic exchanges occur. Receptive to fresh ideas and with sincere interaction between family, change is not an inhibitor of life but something bringing new experiences for all of the members. When an individual confidently values their own self worth enough to share respect of other members, mutual trust is established in the family system to discuss change as a new experience through the guidance of open communication between each other. A family member’s self value is worth far more to the success of the group than individual performances to try to keep control of how to experience life, and with the opportunities rules provide the direction interaction between family members shall go, communication between each member may show them the importance of such a system when the life of the very family depends on it. The parts of a system do not make up it’s whole, it is the way each individual member interacts that forms the bond of communication in a family.