About_Love

It’s funny when u just think and forget to feel; for life is a comedy for those who think and tragedy for those who feel. I know it’s easy to say but more difficult to persuade our heart. The need of the time is to hold the reins of our heart otherwise this thing called love shall shatter our hearts and devastate our lives; sounds cynical but I know nobody wants to be pathetic in the end, so for that one must learn about love… As they say everything seems nice when it’s new; love does show the same property: when you’re in love, there’s fragrance all around, your eyes sees everything beautiful , your ear hears Beethoven’s symphony and your skin just feels another kind of orgasm .Anyways, it’s just the beginning you don’t need to worry because what love does is amazing it takes the conceit out of you slowly and gradually like the umbrella man does when he mends the umbrella by taking all the linking rods out of the main handle but love is a fallacy says Max Shulman in a story from his “The many Loves of Dobie Gillis”well,you can read that thing later for now I’d rather impart light upon several phases that we can find in love to know and get this thing. Love for a non living thing is far more dangerous thing than to love a living thing .Let’s not talk about that thing here.. time is one of the important factors that play different scales or chords at different timings in all different sense of” being in love” .Remember when we were kids we were more free and careless, we would know nothing about love because we never thought about it ,we just did things like playing, dancing, singing, silly fightings- lol-with our buddies, we liked being with our buddies and this liking was close to embracing love .then the time passed on we were young ,teens we had love goose bumps when we saw whom we adored and now the symptoms had changed for the time had changed ,we started to find love, seek love in someone special ,sometimes seeing the beauty of face, sometimes in their attitude, style and mere talents and for some there was no match at all but one could go on and on praising his beloved..when we were eligible to be called as adults we would then have to think about many things besides love like your career, job, study,status,money making and so on…. After then ..Umm I’m not pretty confident in explaining other stages and ages older than mine..so I better stop this part right now. To get love these days you need only those things that count to the counter part’s present situation and so you can deal with those situations sometimes being honest and sometimes you can cheat after all everything is fair in love and war. There’s a theory in economics known as ‘law of diminishing marginal utility ‘ .It describes not only the economy but the human want, it’s similar to having momo, when you are hungry; the first momo has a special and all importance value at the moment but as you eat further pieces then the value starts decreasing and goes on and on, love’s analogy is something like that. Love has all high price value when it is your first love, your first date, it then slowly and gradually fades away in time; you start to find some serious faults in your beloved which you simply liked in the beginning. Hearts do change I mean nothing lasts forever; the love that we seek nowadays must have an end sooner or later… well some people say that being in love and getting love are different terms(meaning the later one is not love),I surely decline that ,the language is fallacious; it’s just different path but leads to the same door then I think it has to be alright unless called making love, that’s another thing. we must have a little patience in finding love -some say true love -I mean love’s always been love ,the eternal truth ;the beauty itself(q.e.d.)Well there are no regular or say the universal formula for finding love of your life, for some people it comes out of nowhere and for some it never comes ,the wait is too long ….some don’t even care because they love some intangible stuffs that they call creativeness, I’ll never understand that may be because I ‘ve never been anywhere near to that. For people who love someone-guys specially -so dearly and never dare to speak up, when they have already found and chose the one to ‘spare’ life time with but still not sure that they can ever be together ,they can take tips from Will Smith, I mean they can watch the movie ‘Hitch’ and for girls they can just watch “rules”yeah ,the same copied Hindi movie and lastly for some people who don’t want love can just go to hell. Well, real lives are more or less not like the movies coz there are no retakes ,one decision can change your whole way of your life .it’s neither that easy nor that difficult to hook up with someone as in the movies. Sometimes its mere luck; you can’t help it and sometimes you just missed out on trying once or more..It’s you from where love generates doesn’t matter where it dissolves. All that is most important is loving yourself and for this you need no love guru……