Gender_Reflection_Paper_On_Friends

Gender Reflection Paper On Friends GRP #3 - Friendship I was raised to be a girly girl. I didn’t climb trees, I didn’t fight boys, I never learned to ride a bicycle because I got driven everywhere I wanted to go. Frankly, I was basically scared of boys through about eighth grade. I was afraid of the smallest iota of a possibility of rejection. This meant that most of the energy that would have gone towards actually pursing the boys I had crushes on was spent on psychoanalyzing my friends. Between the ages of 5 and thirteen I probably had a total of 2 male friends outside of my church. However, despite this severe lack of cross gender relationships I had my first “boyfriend” at seven years old! Strangely, this new development was encouraged by my teachers, while the idea of having a boy as friend would classify me as a tomboy or de-sex him as a male. Because of these complications I never felt very compelled to engage in a friendship with a male. However, male, friends, boys, friendship, years, school, relationships, never, however, emotionally, didn’t, been, because, although, actually, won’t, wish, whom, whole, while, wanted, very, upbringing, until, trees, towards, total, tomboy, through, thirteen, teachers, suddenly, stunted, stray