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Men Are From Mars And Women Are From Venus What are You Talking About' Have you ever fought with your partner' Practicing a conversation in your head of all the mean things you could say' Susan Page and John Gottman are two couples communication experts who offer some skills that will help you calm down in situations like this one. Another author, John Gray has a different approach when it comes to advice and relationships. He believes Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. He translates what women or Venusians say into what women really think and explains that men or Martians need to go into their “cave.” Where they sort things out. Susan Page wrote a book, Essential Traits of Couples Who Thrive. In it she makes an excellent about making “I” statements instead of “you” statements. When we make “you” statements, we are pointing the finger or blaming our partners. For example, “you were flirting with that girl in the restaurant while I was gone.” versus “I feel hurt that I can’t trust you. The “I” statement was less defensive and let the partner know his/her feelings without pointing a finger. She also talks about listening to one another. This is essential for good communication. When women, partner, things, say, men, statements, make, about, page, need, think, talking, really, mean, good, feel, calm, understand, speaker, something, remember, relationships, partners, one, must, making, listening, let, learn, just, help, gottman, feelings, don’t, different, conflict