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2015-08-17 来源: 51due教员组 类别: 更多范文
短文讲述了作者与表姐于圣诞节爬山之后发生了些不愉快的事情，以及事后懊悔的内心世界的体现。
A recent interpersonal communication event happened between me and my cousin when I was back in China during Christmas holiday. I made a plan with one of my best friends to climb a nearby mountain two days after Christmas Day and my cousin asked for a trip together when she knew my plan. However, she was in cold. So I asked her to stay at home in case the cold weather would deteriorate her sickness. But she thought fresh air would do her better and the reason I didn’t want her to go was that I took her as a trouble since I was the older sister. Plus, I was going with my friend and I may be afraid that she would inconvenience our conversation.
I got 50 for my nonverbal immediacy for the interaction, which should be very immediate. I think the consequence comes from verbal cause rather than nonverbal one. Based on her reaction, I should say my partner felt disliked by me since she thought she was the undesirable company.
My average score of concern for relationship, identity as a likeable person and concerns about managing arousal is respectively 6.3, 6.7 and 5. Of all the 9 questions, I am worst at controlling my emotion, so I get the lowest score for concerns for managing arousal. When I told my cousin to stay at home, I didn’t treat her as an equal but a little sister though she was only two years younger. When she showed her unhappiness, I showed my annoyance and was pissed at her misunderstanding. I meant well for her health, somehow she misunderstood me. My cousin is a fan of climbing and also the only child in the family who always gets what she wants. She was upset already for the cold, so when I refused her self-invitation, she kind of flipped out. If I could go back to the situation, I would take her thought into consideration first. I may still refuse her proposal but in a different way. I would not use an older-sister-to-little-sister tone, but treat her as a friend and I would first ask her to consult her doctor or her parents. If they were all with me, the unhappy incident would never have occurred.
