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Essay Experts say the most influential years of a child’s life are from six to fourteen, I’m hoping they are wrong. When I was 7 my father experienced some legal troubles, which forced him to leave the house, the family, me. I remember the day perfectly; it was the day my life would change forever. I was too young to realize what was going on then, so I couldn’t comprehend why my father was leaving me. I begged him to stay and I reminded him countless times how important he was to me. But it was all in vain; I only accomplished making his departure more painful, for both of us. I began seeing the results of the tragedy and its impact on my family, the way it changed my mother, sister, and I. The damage it caused, and how each individual was able to handle adversity. My mother experienced the most difficulty adjusting. She was forced to take on a second job and still could not make ends meet. The daily torment of seeing no way out, no way to lift us out, began to take a heavy emotional toll. She did not have time to spend with us and began mother, sister, better, life, began, years, time, things, make, know, knew, friends, fear, day, yet, way, take, seeing, school, relationship, out, now, made, loving, important, house, gave, emotional, again, yourself, young, women, torment, talk, stop, stay