Fathers_In_Poetry_(Theodore_Roetheke_V._Sylvia_Plath)

Fathers In Poetry (Theodore Roetheke V. Sylvia Plath) Fathers in Poetry: Immortalizing vs. Destroying Their Memory Everyone=s relationship with their father is different. Some idolize them, while others resent. And often these feelings exist regardless of the father=s faults. Two poems that demonstrate this well are ADaddy@ by Sylvia Plath and AMy Papa=s Waltz@ by Theodore Roethke. Both deal with the relationships the authors and their fathers had in light of the father=s faults, but aside from this the poems could hardly be more different. In ADaddy,@ Plath=s father is cold and unfeeling. Despite her best efforts, she cannot win his love. He is the Nazi to her Jew, and cannot accept anyone as inherently flawed as she. Plath realizes after thirty years that she will never come to terms with her father=s coldness and uses her poem to Akill@ his memory. Conversely, Roethke=s father in AMy Papa=s Waltz@ is robust and friendly, if only because he is intoxicated. Roethke seems to adore this father who would come home at night to romp with him before bed; thus, his poem comes across as less of an accusation and more of a fond memory of a flawed but loving parent. ADaddy@ is father, line, poem, plath, roethke, fathers, lines, memory, one, since, after, roethkes, mother, man, love, adaddy@, waltz@, time, says, plaths, papas, kill, amy, though, son, relationship, loving, context, childhood, black, before, bed, years, while, two